Wednesday, April 10, 2013

How to deal with Dramatic Father/Mother of your Children if not Together

Hello everyone, today I want to give a couple of tips on dealing with a dramatic ex who you have to continue to communicate with because of things you share (children/property). The first thing is to know for yourself how you feel about this person. Do you have second thoughts about why you left? Do you still have feelings in your heart for this person? If the answer is no then run for your life, just kidding. But you should make it clear that your feelings are gone and don't play with that person's emotions especially if they are right on the edge of insanity, that's how you end up dead (just kidding once again, although it is a possibility). The second thing is to keep your distance. Don't accept an invite from your ex to their mother's house for Thanksgiving dinner. You don't want to still feel like you are "part of the family." Only keep good communication for the sake of the children. Third, do everything on your part to keep the peace. Speak kind words only and don't allow them to get under your skin. My last and final tip is to pray for guidance to Christ if you don't know how to deal with a person, He is always willing to help. Keep your head up and stay blessed!!!!!

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